How Do You Solve A Problem Like Obesity?

It's time again for the annual ranking of states by percentage of the population that's obese. Typically, this is reported with breathless headlines like "Fattest State!" or "Is It Time for (insert state name here) to Go on a Diet?" The story dominates the news cycle for a day, as horrified newscasters show disturbing images of overweight people (zooming in on their midsections, of course). The concern lasts all of 24 hours before we all move on to the next looming crisis.

Here's what I'm wondering, though: if the statistics are so disturbing (and yes, I think they really are), shouldn't we focus our time and energy on trying to do something about the problem instead of wringing our hands and shrugging our shoulders helplessly? I need to add a disclaimer here: I'm one of the statistics, because I'm overweight, too. So I say these things as someone who is fully aware of the problem, because the problem is me. Still, the numbers I'm reading are certainly something to be concerned about. My home state of North Carolina, for example, reports that 28.3% of the adults are obese, and 33.5% of the children are either obese or overweight. Those stats represent a rank of 12 and 14 in their respective categories. I'm struck by the fact that 1/3 of our children are overweight or obese, and nearly as many adults are obese. That, by any definition, is a lot.

The study outlines a number of areas for concern, and several are worthy of note. Anytime we talk about obesity, we tend to quickly focus on weight, and particularly diet. A study like this has the potential to serve as a wake-up call, but only if we look at all the pieces. What I mean, I guess, is that the solution to a problem like obesity, particularly where children are concerned, is bound to be complicated. We won't be able to decrease obesity levels quickly or easily. That's not to say it can't be done, however, or that we shouldn't try. Anyone who's been successful at losing weight can attest to the fact that it's possible, and that it's worth it. But if we really want to do something about our national obesity problem - and it really is a national issue - we have to think broadly. Obesity isn't just about the food we put in our mouths. It's about how we take care of our bodies; how we think about health care. Are doctors the people we go to in a crisis, with whom we rarely interact otherwise, or are they the ones we collaborate with in order to reach a better, healthier lifestyle? At a time when the economy is suffering, how do we think about where and how we spend our time and our money? Do we go for the easy, cheap options, or do we think beyond the processed food choices so readily available to us and search out other possibilities, such as buying from local farms? Instead of spending inordinate amounts of time glued to our TVs, computers, and video games, or riding in cars to destinations we could easily walk to, do we make an effort to spend time being physically active each day - and trying to set an example for our kids and families?

We didn't get to this point in our lives quickly, but through a long history of choices we make individually and corporately. That also means we won't make changes easily, nor without a concerted effort. But it is possible; I truly believe that. I think it starts with 2 important steps: first, by the choices I make as an individual to lead a healthier, more active life; and second, by talking about those choices with the people around me, in an open conversation about what our shared goals are and what we can do together to make things better for all of us. That's how we can begin to solve our obesity problem, with small steps made consciously.

A Pedestrian's Open Letter to Drivers

Dear Drivers,

I see you every day as I walk around town, but sometimes I wonder: do you see me? I try to be a good pedestrian and share the roads. I look both ways before crossing the street. I try to make sure I cross with the traffic light. I make an effort to make eye contact with you, and I try to be predictable so you won't worry about me darting in front of you and causing an accident.

I know I'm smaller than your vehicle, and that in a contest of woman vs. machine, I would lose. So I make an effort to be responsible, and I think of myself as someone who walks defensively. And yet, from time to time, I wonder whether it's enough. I step into the crosswalk when the light turns green, and out of the corner of my eye, you come quickly toward me, starting your turn. Do you see me? Do you notice me standing in front of you? Does it even occur to you that other people use the streets and sidewalks? Do you realize that while cars rule the road, pedestrians often have the right-of-way?

A lot of times, I walk without incident. But I've also had more than my share of difficult interactions with your fellow drivers (which probably comes with walking more than the average person does). So I'm a little jaded these days. I don't know whether to trust you or not. I approach crosswalks with an overabundance of caution lately. I still remember a few months ago the driver who yelled at me for having the audacity to cross the street when I had the right-of-way, and refusing to yield to him when I wasn't required to. I confess that sometimes I assert myself rather than wait when I know I have the legal right to cross. It's probably not the smartest or safest thing to do. But it makes me think: do drivers really know the rules of the road? Is it that you don't understand your responsibilities as a driver and my rights as a pedestrian? Or do you just not care? Maybe you're in a hurry to get where you're going. Or you're distracted by the bad day you've had and you aren't taking in all of the things and people around you.

I want to give you the benefit of the doubt. I know that all drivers aren't bad; heck, I drive too, and I hope I'm kind to other drivers and pedestrians more times than I'm not. I know that nobody's perfect. But I'm also worried, and a little afraid, because the odds are that if we keep going this way, one of us is going to be hurt. And in that woman vs. machine contest, it's likely to be me. So I'm asking you - no, I'm begging: please look around, and really see. There are more of us walking than you might think.

I'll tell you what; I'll make a deal with you: if you promise to try harder to be a more careful and observant driver, then I'll promise to be a less aggressive pedestrian. I'll try to be more concerned about staying safe than being right. And between the two of us, maybe we can make things safer for all of us, drivers and pedestrians alike. So what do you say; do we have a deal?

Yours truly,
A Concerned Pedestrian